Ways of learning

           We often hear people tell us to learn from them...that we need not commit the same mistakes they have done in the past to know it's a mistake, but ironically, many still won't listen but wanted to learn from their own. 

            I am reminded of a friend who tried to gave advises to her sisters.  Her sisters instead told her these exact words, "look who's talking " in a very sarcastic tone.  When people gave their pieces of advises, it is for the reason that they care.  They've been through it, knew the consequences, thus,  they want us not to go through the same mistakes over and over again but instead choose a better option possible.  We are lucky when we need not go through the same process just to learn the lessons.  How stupid will it be to just ignore those who went through ahead of us as they are the one's who knew better and have been polished by the mistakes they have done in the past.